Reeling them in
Often a potential match making conversation may never happen
at all because women don’t make the most of the opportunities. It is said that
men should make the first move when it comes to the game of love. However there
are many good men who could be distracted, shy, or unaware and as a result will
not approach you when they should. Contrary to the popular thinking that a man
should make the first move, is to be the one to make the first move. Men aren’t
psychic.
This can be done by giving him a clear 5 second eye gaze
along with a great smile; this is a clear sign that will give men the
confidence to approach you.
If he is someone you already know, then bumping into him
with the right conversation is another approach, it should still be paired with
a gaze to give him a sure sign that the next move is up to him.
Preparation
More often than not, women will leave a conversation up to
what they can come up with on the spot and not do any preparation when it comes
to the topics to bring up and respond with. Preparation is necessary if you
want to make the most out of a conversation with any man.
There are some specific subjects that you want to prepare
for when you get into a conversation with a guy you like being; exciting subjects
to bring up, a question that will make him think about you, and an answer that
will make him think about you.
Practice
Practice is important when it comes to speaking with a guy
you like. This is because just like singing, we may sound better in our minds
than what actually comes out of our mouths. Practicing your conversation out
loud to yourself or practicing on other guys is important in being smooth and
sounding natural when the real deal comes your way.
1 question that
will make him think about you
In your conversation with a guy you like you should have
prepared one question to ask him that will make him think about you. Some good
examples are, if you had to guess what kind of a person I am what would you
say? If you had to guess my personality type what would you guess, or which
celebrity do I remind you of.
These questions can associate good qualities that he brings
up with you in his mind. The last question can make him think of you each time
he is reminded of that celebrity. Not only will these questions keep your
conversation unique and make you stand out in his mind, but they will get him
thinking about you throughout his day.
Steer the
conversation
Don’t leave the conversation up to whatever topics he or you
bring up on the spot, and don’t let the conversation go naturally to the topics
of; your job, the weather, or the news. You want to steer the conversation to
topics that will excite someone, flirty subjects or things he is passionate
about. This is how you keep your time together exciting and make an impression
on his mind. It will also keep him talking to you longer and allow your
relationship to develop.
Subjects like travelling and what’s attractive about the
opposite sex are good examples to bring up. You want to stay away from the
ordinary and boring things that normal people talk about in everyday
conversations. That’s how you get labeled as someone ordinary.
An answer that will
keep him thinking about you
In your preparation time before your actual conversation
together, you want to prepare an answer that will keep him thinking about you.
It’s inevitable that during your conversation together, he asks you what you do
for work. This is an opportunity to bring up your answer that makes him think
about you. A good example is to give him clues about what you do for work and
make him guess. When he is close in getting it right, don’t reveal what you do,
make him think about it throughout his day. Riddles like these are what keeps
men thinking and more importantly, about you. Men can get pretty obsessive when
it comes to solving unanswered questions, keep yourself on his mind.
Flirting with your
lips
Bring attention to your lips when you speak with a man you
like. This can be done through biting the side of your lips or by wetting your
lips with your tongue. It’s the subtle things about a woman that men find sexy,
and you want all of the advantage you can get in physical things men are
attracted to.
When it comes to talking with someone you like it is
different than talking to a normal person. You have an agenda, and that is in
getting him to like you back. Using the right questions, the right approach,
and some planning ahead, you can successfully achieve your hidden agenda. Use
these tips when it comes to talking with a man you like.
